Last updated on August 15th, 2021 at 01:44 pm
The secret of online dating is a conversation starter and first message. Tinder is no exception for that, some people know how to start a conversation on Tinder. If you are a newbie and you don’t know how to start a conversation on Tinder then don’t be worry here I am writing about how to start a conversation with a girl or boy on Tinder.
What is Tinder?
Before knowing how to start a conversation on Tinder. First, know what is Tinder?. Tinder is a geo-targeted social networking and online dating application that anonymously swipe to like or dislike other profiles based on their photos, a small bio, and common interests. Once two users have “matched”, they can start a conversation on Tinder.
Tinder was launched in 2012 and it gets famous within a short time. Now, It has more than a billion swipes per day. You can make a Tinder account with a mobile phone through a mobile app. If you are a computer user now you can use Tinder through a web browser on a PC or Laptop.
How To Start A Conversation On Tinder
You can start a conversation on Tinder when you get a match. Means when you swipe someone right (like) and he/she likes you back then it’s ‘match’. It means you can start a conversation with that person on Tinder. To start a conversation on Tinder follows the below-mentioned steps:
1.Use conversation starter/openers
The best sense to start a conversation with your Tinder match is to use a conversation starter aka convo openers. Don’t say simply hi, hello instead of that use conversation starter or openers.
- What’s something not many, people know about you?
- Love your trekking photo. Where was that taken?
- Epic beach shot. Was that a pretty amazing day?
- What keeps you up at night?
- Cute kitty cat! Is he/she yours?
Above mentioned lines are a conversation starter. Try to be unique and use your word playing skills to impress your match. Conversation starters are always useful to get replies on dating as well as social media sites.
2. Be unique, simple, and straightforward
Don’t be overact and don’t hide your reality. It means to be unique, simple, and straightforward. Keep it simple and real. Ask simple questions and slowly involve in meaningful conversation. Once you both feel comfortable with each other then you can explore more about each other.
3. Start with profile & profile photos
Starting a conversation with the profile info of the match is the best idea. Even your Tinder match hasn’t added a lot to their profile, you can generally locate an opening by asking about their job, area, or school. They’re basic however give you more to go on.
You can also start a conversation with a profile photo of your match. Even your Tinder match added a single photo. Ask about the photo, photo location. You can give a compliment on the photo and start a conversation. If your match has multiple photos, pick the best photo, and start a conversation.
4. Use bio & photos as a hint
Some Tinder user gives hint in bio so read bio carefully of your match. Many users clearly mention in their bios what exactly they want. If you match a girl that has photos of her and friend in pubs– tell her you to like the party okay?!
5. Start with a compliment and be slightly flirty
It’s always better to start a conversation with a compliment rather than hie and hello. Pick something you like about their photos, bio, and interest mentioned in the profile. The good compliment can spark conversation and take things forward.
Hello, it’s Tinder so it’s okay to be flirty, yet except if your match’s profile has flirty or explicitly charged language in it, it’s far superior to just be slightly flirty. Give them a little bother that makes them need more.
6. Start with random questions or comments
Don’t start with serious questions and talks. Ask causal and random questions. If your match has funny photos be a little humourous ask funny things about photos or crack the joke.
Starting a conversation is no easy task but it does not mean you can’t start a conversation. If you find it’s difficult just start with a random comment. You can do comment regarding photos of your match or bio info or interest. It can lead you to a successful convo on Tinder.
7. Don’t wait, make the first move
Once you get a match don’t wait for your match to message you first. Make the first move and message your match. Definitely it leads to a conversation.
8. Use Photo & GIF
You can use a photo or GIF to start a conversation with your Tinder match. Photo or GIF express yourself which you can’t express in words. One meaningful photo or GIF can lead you to a successful convo on Tinder with your match. While using a photo or GIF use meaningful photo or GIF don’t use exploit GIF or photo.
Thus you can try to start a conversation on Tinder. With the above-mentioned tips, you can easily learn how to start a conversation with a girl or boy on Tinder.